It's just a tool. As long as there has been a technologist in a room with an artist, there has been potential for abuse, in or outside of music. Even among musicians, there are those who obsess about tone and chops over musical expression. It is just a tool.
The fact is that all of the things that tape forces you to do are things you can do just as well in the computer, if you recognize their value and use them. Listening to an artist's cue mix instead of your own mix, waiting for and searching for the right performance, trying to exercise musical ambition- all is there. That people don't do this is a testimony to indict the users of the tools, not the tools themselves. You try the murderer, not the gun.
I personally love having the computer around. I'm comfortable, never worry about losing data, have never had an issue with it. I spend money to make sure that everything is going well, but it is less than what I would spend to make the rest of a studio that would be hanging off the end of a tape machine always happen reliably.
As a producer, I love the ability to be deep within a long, complicated record, and always have a developed mix that always comes back, with no questions about whether the assistant fucked up. This security is a major aid to the creative flow of a record- there is never any question as to whether what we're hearing is what we had.
I love walking into a studio with my setup and not having to worry about how things work or are maintained or whether the assistant has any idea of what they are doing. Give me my mic feeds, give me a return, let me go.
In addition, I like having lots of possible takes. Not necessarily to use them all, but to always reassure the artist that if they keep pushing, they can get back to where they were. Sure, sometimes it keeps growing, but a lot of times, that third take you blow over may have been all you had in you.
For those of you in love with the flow of tape, I'll say, that's just your custom. There are plenty of places where wait times, wind times, etc. get in the way of energy. It is all relative, in terms of this area. Ever go to a band rehearsal? Their energy does not fall into neatly spaced 15 minute chunks that let you switch reels. Hit record in the computer, let it go, let them work at their own pace. Producer sits back, listens. No stopping, no worrying, no nothing. One example of the value of the computer to the session's artistic flow.
At the end of the day, there are lots of people who use any given technology. Most use it to be lazy, some use it to do different work. It is your choice. But it is just a tool. Hating the DAW world would be like getting mad at power saws because they let people make crappy houses faster.
ps. When tape hit, there are those who said all the same things of overdubs and layering- Why not just record to two track. Go look at what people said about that first tape-loop Les Paul record. Again, it is just a tool. If you want to be pure, you'd never record in the first place (a grumble that can still be heard if you walk through the pit of any Broadway show or Orchestra.)