I wholeheartedly agree, Fletcher...100% and then some. I'd guess your kids are way above the curve in coolness when it comes to understanding these things.
That aside, most people can tell the difference between a project done on a Behringer board and couple of Ratshack mics and one done at Dark Horse. That's not was I was getting at - most people can't tell if the ADDA was Avid, Radar, Prism, Burl, or whatever. Most can't tell if the console was Neve, API, etc. Most can't hear the difference between an 1176, LA2, Retro 176, or any other hi end device on the lead vocal...
All these things do is to enhance the production of the song. Most end consumers I interact with can tell the difference between an RNC and say, a Behringer Autocom, in a mix, or a kick drum done with a Peluso 2247 instead of a Shure SM57...
Yes, I think we should strive for the best we can get...my point was that at a certain level of gear excellence, I believe that at some point the time and money invested in worrying about which ADDA, which capacitors in a certain device, or the color of the knobs becomes pretty counter productive, taking away from the actual "rolling" time spent with clients.
Since we are discussing, too many people have preconceived notions that the sounds they heard on vinyl are available at the push of a button, and that their mastered CD should sound exactly like an LP. When I explain RIAA curves, they blankly stare into outer space and ask for the plug in to fix it; and then complain because it doesn't make the windows of their cars rattle