You're both making really valid points there, guys.
It is a REALLY difficult issue, and I think it's safe to say that nobody has all the answers - so much depends on your point of view.
I think the point I'm really making is that the poor are always scapegoated as being the scourge of society for living on benefits - regardless of the fact that a lot more money is finding it's way UP the social ladder all the time, by way of unreasonable food and fuel prices, unearned bonuses, the manipulated growth in house prices, forced borrowing and so on.
And although, as I said earlier, there is certainly an indolent element which can not be morally encouraged, it is a little disingenuous to imply that it is a simple matter to free oneself from poverty as easily as is being suggested.
Also, the word 'welfare' can mean several things:
In the UK, there used to be a thing called Supplementary Benefit - now called Tax Credit (how's that for Newspeak?) - which is basically a top up for those on low incomes, whether it be from low paid jobs, part-time work, self-employment or whatever.
These people are not reluctant to work. Nor are they incapacitated in any way, other than being forced to live on an unreasonably low wage in an ecomony where the cost of living is going through the roof.
What about them? Should they be allowed to have babies, even though they are in receipt of 'welfare'?
As I say, it's a very difficult issue, and very hard to come up with a blanket policy that can be summed up in a few words, and that can be fair to everyone.
I think my basic problem is with the mindset - the one that says that only people that can do well for themselves should have kids.
It seems to me that parenthood is a basic human right - regardless of your status in life.
Dan