my recommendation list i send to clients that ask me, goes exactly like this.
in no particular order, i recommend the following ME's.
Brad Blackwood - Euphonic Masters, Memphis, TN
Dave Collins - Dave Collins Mastering, LA, CA
Dave McNair - Sterling Mastering, NYC, NY
i can't quote rates for these guys, as i honestly don't know them. however, the rest of your post is basically requesting a fairly (to highly) skilled ME (mastering engineer). the size and scope of recording, overdubbing and mixing a band is so much larger then mastering. even if hourly rates seem high to you, a great question to ask is how long it takes them to master a single song. things vary for everyone, however most ME's can give you a decent ballpark.
hope this helps.